{"id":2874,"date":"2015-04-20T08:41:03","date_gmt":"2015-04-20T08:41:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blackbeltwhitehat.com\/?p=2874"},"modified":"2015-04-22T07:18:22","modified_gmt":"2015-04-22T07:18:22","slug":"lidando-com-idiotas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blackbeltwhitehat.com\/pt\/2015\/04\/20\/lidando-com-idiotas\/","title":{"rendered":"Lidando com idiotas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Diariamente, provavelmente a cada hora, ou\u00e7o pessoas reclamando de outras pessoas.
\nAlgumas dessas coisas s\u00e3o simplesmente problemas de primeiro mundo.<\/p>\n

\"pontas<\/a><\/p>\n

Primeira coisa a fazer<\/strong> \u2013 Esteja aberto \u00e0 possibilidade de voc\u00ea ser um idiota e t\u00e3o ruim quanto qualquer outro.<\/span>
\nElbert, na imagem acima, estava certo. Na verdade, ele queria dizer "idiota" quando usou a palavra "tolo" na cita\u00e7\u00e3o.
\nEstou o mais aberto poss\u00edvel \u00e0 possibilidade de ter sido um idiota ou um pouco imbecil. Ali\u00e1s, provavelmente estou sendo um agora mesmo.
\nAlgumas das piores pessoas que conhe\u00e7o passam a maior parte do tempo reclamando dos outros. Uma viagem ao Peru e algumas Ayahuasca <\/a>Isso ajudaria nesse cen\u00e1rio.
\nSer\u00e1 que todo mundo \u00e9 um pouco arrogante e voc\u00ea se considera moralmente superior? Pense nisso.<\/p>\n

Segunda coisa<\/strong> \u2013 Aceite que todos os grupos demogr\u00e1ficos, todas as sociedades, est\u00e3o cheios de pessoas "m\u00e1s". N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que se possa fazer.<\/span>
\nSe as pessoas "m\u00e1s" n\u00e3o est\u00e3o por a\u00ed com armas em punho massacrando todo mundo (como em algum lugar como o Sud\u00e3o (recentemente assisti ao document\u00e1rio "Machine Gun Preacher")), ent\u00e3o voc\u00ea tem bastante sorte e, em termos relativos, n\u00e3o tem muito do que reclamar.
\nIsso est\u00e1 relacionado \u00e0 parte dos 99 problemas. esta postagem do blog.<\/a>\u00a0Todo mundo tem um grande problema \u2013 certa vez ouvi algu\u00e9m reclamando do imposto sobre ve\u00edculos do seu Bentley e Range Rover. \u00c9 f\u00e1cil perder a no\u00e7\u00e3o da realidade, \u00e9 da natureza humana e depende do ambiente e das pessoas com quem voc\u00ea convive. Provavelmente voc\u00ea n\u00e3o tem muito do que reclamar; pense bem, ser\u00e1 que essas pessoas... que<\/em> Ruim em uma escala global?
\nSeja grato pelas pessoas com quem voc\u00ea n\u00e3o precisa lidar diariamente e por todas as outras coisas boas:<\/p>\n

\"Gratid\u00e3o-tipografia\"<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00daltima coisa \u2013 <\/strong>ignore a m\u00eddia
\n<\/span>Muitos jornais e outros ve\u00edculos de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o vendidos com base na ideia de provocar raiva nas pessoas. Geralmente, pessoas brancas de classe m\u00e9dia. Leia uma fonte de m\u00eddia de esquerda, assim como uma de direita (ou quase), para ter uma vis\u00e3o equilibrada. O filme "Nightcrawler" tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 \u00f3timo; faz voc\u00ea refletir sobre a m\u00eddia que consumimos.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I hear, on a daily basis, probably hourly basis, people – complaining about people. Some of it just first-world-problemesc. First thing to do – be open to the possibility that you’re a bellend and just as bad. Elbert, in the picture above had it right. 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